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Childhood
with party chicks, destiny and soul mate stuff with new
Pets
age chicks, etc.
Nightlife
Movies
Be mindful that you don t seem like you are trying hard
Gossip
to find common things between you. Don t say things
Family
like, Me too! Instead say, Yes, that s good, but you
Outlook on Life
know what I like even better& , or even disagree with
her on occasion. Don t overdo it and get into argu-
ments over things like politics or religion, but if you
disagree it s okay to tease her or just playfully tell her she s wrong about
something and move on. It shows you aren t scrambling to build Rapport
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with her and you think for yourself.
Treat rapport like you re just learning about her and sharing your thoughts.
If you seem like you are trying hard to manufacture a connection, it removes
you from the role of chooser. There should be an underlying subtext in Rap-
port that you are screening her to see if she meets your standards, and that
the deeper you get, she is meeting those standards, which you will reward
her for.
Reward her with deeper intimacy and physical contact. Don t wait too long
to get physical. Use the growing connection between you as a reason to
make a move. You must not become just an interesting conversation. A
physical move (hand hold, kiss, hug) should happen within fifteen minutes
to two hours, and only in special situations longer than that. If you wait too
long without touching, holding hands or kissing there is the danger of losing
attraction and becoming stuck in the friend category.
The Cube and palm reading techniques can work if used in the right place at
the right time by a skilled person. I prefer something else though - I use
experience and intuition to simply explain how she feels or what she thinks
or why she behaved in a certain way in a situation. You basically just use
the information she gives you and describe how she must have felt, what
motivates her and how she thinks. With practice, you will get good at this.
If you are right, it adds huge amounts of rapport, makes her think you re-
ally get her, and is quicker and less boring than stock cold reads. If you are
wrong, she will correct you by giving you intimate information about herself
which you can use to your advantage and use as an impetus to share infor-
mation about yourself. It s a win/win situation.
Rapport is a natural process that occurs when people get to know each other,
so it must FEEL natural. Keep the guidelines above in mind as a rule try to
always steer her in the direction of positive emotions. From beginning
to end, everything should flow smoothly and naturally. Every step, from the
initial approach, to attraction, to kissing, to isolation, to sex must be smooth
and must look like it s not planned. Girls love to say, It just happened.
When a girl smells that you prepared something or it s obvious you are doing
premeditated things just to pick her up, it will destroy your game. Everything
must look like it s happening spontaneously.
The real truth is that you must plan and know what is your next step is at
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all times. Everything we do in Rapport is carefully planned and executed to-
wards the goal of building an emotional connection and escalating physically
to sex. It s so carefully planned, that from outside it looks like it s happening
naturally.
Phone Numbers
ots of guys go out and make the game harder than it really is. They go out
Land their goal is to get phone numbers and email addresses. Their whole
game is base around taking girls contact info.
Then what happens is, they get fake numbers, flakes& etc.
Ideally, your game should be designed such that taking a phone number is
a last resort. Taking her contact info is something you do because there is
nothing more you can do.
Always, always, always try to get as much as possible from the situation you
have. Don t limit yourself to phone numbers. Every guy can take her phone
number. It s EASY. Can you fuck a phone number? No.
Then don t try to take a phone number home. Take her home.
Always try to push it as far as it will go. If you cannot get her home and
have sex with her or have some other logistical problem THEN take a phone
number. ONLY then, when you see everything else is impossible.
What a good player aims for is the following: he fucks a girl, and if she is
good in bed, he will take her phone number to see her again. If she is not
good in bed, he won t take her phone number. It doesn t work out like this
every time but it s the best attitude to have. You will be surprised how many
times you can get the girl home if you are willing to try and not just settle
for a number. Phone numbers are the very last thing you should go for. Only
when all other options are OFF, then you go for phone number.
If you must settle for taking contact info, avoid taking emails. Email is too
easy to ignore, makes it much harder to convey your personality and a con-
versation over email can take weeks.
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There is one big rule. Never ask for number directly, like, Can you give me
your phone number? or, What s your phone number? It sounds too needy
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